WHY?
is this stuff seen as dangerous...
'Fraternity', 'family', brotherhood', 'friendship', 'couples' are all about a collective enterprise. You can't do any of them on your own.
But the fact is that the history of Western Civilisation is of increasing separation of societies into communities, communities into atomised individuals, all told to pursue personal goals, individual goals, not collective goals.
Fraternities have had to contend with that very strong negative shift against them. It has continuously thrown their principles and their practices into doubt. Fraternities which survive such as the Freemasons and 'trade-oriented societies', trade unions if you prefer, are anachronisms. They shouldn't exist today. But they do and cater for a subversive urge which seems to exist in many of us to come together. To find and become part of a collective enterprise.
However, because of our history, we no longer understand what's involved with 'togetherness', we no longer have the skills necessary to make it work over a long period, indeed very few even know what skills are required.
For what it's worth, I suggest just two skills will do it, if we have the time and patience: 1) curiosity (a desire to learn), and 2) an understanding of conflict resolution.
Anyone can belong by becoming one of an unthinking mass, all doing the same thing. However, curiosity and learning involve retaining a personal, independent point of view. So, keeping one's desire to learn while part of a group, inevitably results in differences of opinion which can be either destructive or constructive depending on how the conflict is resolved.
Some people, perhaps a majority, fear curiosity and a desire for learning because such attitudes could lead to QUESTIONING of STRUCTURES, OVERTURNING of CONVENTIONS, FREEDOM FROM CONTROLS, or even ENLIGHTENMENT.
Some people, perhaps a majority, fear non-violent conflict resolution because such an approach could lead to MORE PEACE than VIOLENCE, an UNDERSTANDING OF HOW WE ARE MANIPULATED TO CONFORM, or even to COLLECTIVE ASPIRATIONS for a BETTER WORLD.
Over, say the last 1,000 years, various 'masters' have claimed to know THE ONE TRUE PATH. And all have claimed that such-and-such evidence was relevant to understanding and certain other evidence was not. If and when any one theory has dominated, it has denied access to all other 'truth', by:
* the burning of witches;
* the INQUISITION's regime of torture and worse;
* BOOK-BURNINGS, including in the USA;
* lynchings, pogroms, ethnic cleansing;
* 'un-common ideas' have been labelled 'blasphemous', or 'dangerous';
* believers in a particular 'truth' commonly tell any questioners 'You just don't understand', or worse - 'You're not class-conscious', 'you've betrayed your upbringing', or 'you've brought dishonour on our family, and so you must die.'
Today, commonly it is asserted that 'you are either with us, or against us, there can be no in-between.'
The stories of fraternal societies are littered with conflicts over possible paths to 'THE LIGHT'.
Historically, fraternal societies have drawn on the Bible for their precepts, their stories and their symbols. Seeking 'the light' has been a common message to initiates - by a rational approach to learning, particularly of science and mathematics.
But today, two things are different: the fraternals, eg, Freemasonry, have allowed themselves to be captured by a single belief system, in their case Christianity. Believers of modern-day rationalist approaches to learning repeatedly, but futilely, fling themselves against this entrenched mind-set. And 'the brethren in control' have convinced themselves that Christianity, as they understand it, provides all that they need to know. Thus they deny their own principles and refuse any need for curiosity or independent thought. All brethren will accept the narrow, self-serving 'truth', as presented by those in favour, or else.
Even to discuss, let alone assert, alternative views has been declared 'heretical'.